This is an era where the level of intelligence among guys
and ladies is dwindling due to distraction on social media, TVs and other
entertainment aspects.
Wooing a lady takes a lot of strategies as we know(guys) taking NO for an answer is painful making us feel like a hunter without weapon or striker without boot.
As a result of this, guys indulge into shameful methods/acts of wooing ladies which keep our dignity in question which I will summarise below;
1. Sending PM/requests/message: Prior to tosin post yesterday, sending numerous PM to a lady just to break even of winning her love is arrant nonsense. Am not saying sending PM is wrong but make it little. You can imagine sending 30 PMs per day to a lady is just a show of shame. I mean for crying out loud, such guys are displaying high level of foolishness. These are the kind of guys you see their post claiming most nairaland babes are rude. Your mates are busy thinking of how to make forbes list, u are chasing... only God knows if these ladies upload their real pix.
2. Use of whistling sound: If you go to computer village in Lagos or any commercial area in your state, Some guys use annoying whistling sound to call a lady as if she is a bingo( pet dog). Atimes u can't differentiate their whistling sound from that of those hawkers on traffic saying 'By GALA'. I wonder the kind of ladies who fall for these trash perhaps the one who is completely dump.
3. Drinking alcohol: Some guys are really shy and because of fake self confidence, they drink alcohol to man up their courage. A lady you cannot confidently woo when u are okay, then you cannot be her boyfriend let alone husband.
4. Money: This issue has been discussed on several posts but I will salt to injury. Displaying money, gadgets and other material stuffs make u her MAGA. Like someone said, your attitude and strategies wins her but your money keep her. Some guys put the cart before the horse. Something they can't buy for their parents, they purchase for these gold diggers whereby they will later say she broke my heart. This is what happen when the hunter becomes a prey.
5. Displaying disgraceful proposal on social media/forum: I won't mention names but when I see write up of some guys declaring their undying love for a lady they have not met, discuss nor even get any of her contacts is shameful. This is so common here on the romance section. The structure and sentence arrangement of their English is zero, spelling; minus five, etc.
I hope guys learn wooing a lady is not about HARD WORK but SMART WORK.
Wooing a lady takes a lot of strategies as we know(guys) taking NO for an answer is painful making us feel like a hunter without weapon or striker without boot.
As a result of this, guys indulge into shameful methods/acts of wooing ladies which keep our dignity in question which I will summarise below;
1. Sending PM/requests/message: Prior to tosin post yesterday, sending numerous PM to a lady just to break even of winning her love is arrant nonsense. Am not saying sending PM is wrong but make it little. You can imagine sending 30 PMs per day to a lady is just a show of shame. I mean for crying out loud, such guys are displaying high level of foolishness. These are the kind of guys you see their post claiming most nairaland babes are rude. Your mates are busy thinking of how to make forbes list, u are chasing... only God knows if these ladies upload their real pix.
2. Use of whistling sound: If you go to computer village in Lagos or any commercial area in your state, Some guys use annoying whistling sound to call a lady as if she is a bingo( pet dog). Atimes u can't differentiate their whistling sound from that of those hawkers on traffic saying 'By GALA'. I wonder the kind of ladies who fall for these trash perhaps the one who is completely dump.
3. Drinking alcohol: Some guys are really shy and because of fake self confidence, they drink alcohol to man up their courage. A lady you cannot confidently woo when u are okay, then you cannot be her boyfriend let alone husband.
4. Money: This issue has been discussed on several posts but I will salt to injury. Displaying money, gadgets and other material stuffs make u her MAGA. Like someone said, your attitude and strategies wins her but your money keep her. Some guys put the cart before the horse. Something they can't buy for their parents, they purchase for these gold diggers whereby they will later say she broke my heart. This is what happen when the hunter becomes a prey.
5. Displaying disgraceful proposal on social media/forum: I won't mention names but when I see write up of some guys declaring their undying love for a lady they have not met, discuss nor even get any of her contacts is shameful. This is so common here on the romance section. The structure and sentence arrangement of their English is zero, spelling; minus five, etc.
I hope guys learn wooing a lady is not about HARD WORK but SMART WORK.