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Ladies, See How To Win Your Man's Heart Completely

christian nwodo - Saturday, March 21, 2015

I was reading a research recently and the crux is that many ladies today don't know how to respect or love a man, especially when they are married. They carry their ego as girlfriend into marriage. Sorry!
But for those who are serious to win the man's heart and be a good wife, this is for you.

Many marriages break down these days because our generation of women has become weak and lazy. They no longer pamper their man as necessary. They allow the men to run wild and cheat anyhow.

Ladies, if you want to win your man, then you must observe and do these things...

1. Behave like a true female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female – a man doesn’t want a "man" for his wife! A perfect wife is one who doesn't expect a perfect husband. How we handle our husband’s shortcomings reveals more about our own character than our husbands.

2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day. Go to the market, buy push ups and G-strings.

3. Smell good at all times!

4. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break or You will unconsciously send him to a beer parlour.

5. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”

6. Stop nagging.

7. Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet, not even under the pretense of seeking help! If you think you want to solve legitimate marital issues, Do it yourself and don't run to a third party unless its a life threatening issue. Mediate any injustice done, Talk it over after he calms down. Allow him whenever he is angry. dont talk back so any wrong can be corrected and the couple can reunite in harmony.

8. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.

9. Learn all the rights and obligations of each other. Focus on fulfilling your obligations, not demanding your rights.

10. Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug him.

11. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.

12. Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc.) This will build his self-esteem.

13. Always tell him he’s the best husband ever.

14. Call his family often.

15. Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.

16. When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested.

17. Encourage him to do charity.

18. If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over it.

19. Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. It’s a big deal.

20. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.

21. When you’re mad at him, don’t say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him.

22. Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.

23. Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they’re good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn’t feel “cooped up” at home.

24. If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.

25. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.

26. Don’t get mad over small things. It’s not worth it.

27. Make jokes. If you’re not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him.

28. Tell him you’re the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you’re good at.

29. Learn to make his favorite dish. If he like suya, learn to make suya, if na peper soup and agidi, learn and make it at home, isi ewu etc

30. Don’t ever, EVER talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily. If they end up agreeing with you, you will see that it hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have a bad husband–and other people also think you have a bad husband.

31. Use your time wisely and get things accomplished. If you’re a home-maker, take online classes and get active in your community. This will make you happy and a secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.

32. Love him and cherish him.

33. Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or not to do. Do NOT give commands or instructions like he’s your servant. “They are garment to each other”

34. Tell your husband you love him, many, many times.

35. Have a race or play a game with your husband and let him win, even if you are much fitter and stronger than him.

36. Keep fit and take care of your health so you will remain a strong mother, wife, cook and housekeeper, you will not get FAT and frumpy.

37. Refine and cultivate good mannerisms i.e do not whine, don’t laugh or talk too loud or walk like an elephant.

38. Do not leave the house without his permission and certainly not without his knowledge.

39. Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always looking fresh and crisp.

40. Don’t discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is tired or sleepy. Find right time for right discussion.

41. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. lol

42. Always let him know that you appreciate him working and bringing home the “dough”. It makes it easier for him to go to work.

43. Make sure you ALWAYS have something for dinner.

44. Brush your hair, everyday and your teeth too.

45. Don’t forget to do laundry.

46. Surprise him with gifts. Even necessities, such as new shoes, can be gifts.

47. Listen to him. (Even when he talks about extremely boring things like basketball or computers.)

48. Try (hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies, support his football team (if any).

49. Try not to go shopping too much... and spend all his money.

50. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him. INITIATE SEX

51. Learn tricks and “techniques” to please your husband in intimacy. Suck his penis always and swallow if need be or someone else will do it for you out side. Always bury his penis inside of you at least twice a day and he will be to tired and buried to cheat. Never refuse him any sex position he wants. (Of course goes both ways.)

52. Prepare for special evenings with him with special dinner and exclusive time (no children permitted).

53. Take care of your skin, especially your face. The face is center of attraction.

54. If you not satisfied intimately, talk to him and tell him. Help him or provide resources, don’t wait until matters become worse.

55. Ask God to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and love between the two of you, every day, every prayer. Ask him to protect that bond.

56. Don’t EVER compare your husbands to other husbands! For example don’t say, “well her husband doesn’t do that, why do you...” (that's a killer!)

57. Be happy with what you have because no one is perfect.

58. Strive for Gods love first and foremost! 

59. Men are big babies, make them feel loved. Mother them and make sure you breast feed him once in a while.
60. Don't go reporting him to your brother(s), especially if he is richer than them. Be a respectful wife!

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